Home Is Where The Care Is


Home is where the heart is. Though you may love your home, the day may come when you are unable to receive the care you need there. Sometimes living in the home is no longer practical or safe. The home may be too hard to navigate or too isolated and sometimes healthcare needs just exceed what can be provided at home.

Many seniors’ biggest fear is leaving their homes. Some fear leaving home will mean a total loss of independence. They fear that if they leave home, they will be “locked away” in a nursing home. The good news is there are many options available for seniors besides nursing home care. When facing a housing change you need to be asking the right questions. What level of care do you need? Who will provide the care? Where can you get this care? How will you pay for this care?


Sometimes staying in the home is the best option, whether for financial or emotional reasons. Accepting care in the home early can help prolong the period of time seniors can remain safely in their homes. The next question is what resources do you have available to you to allow you to remain in your home while still getting the care you need. Some people are low in funds, but rich in family. Some people may not have family in the area, but can afford to pay for care in the home. There are also some low cost home services available for those who qualify.

Care Taker Child Services

If you are lucky enough to have a child or grandchild in the area whom is able to care for you, you may receive basic care from them. Sometimes it’s enough for your children to split up duties and visit or call every day. Sometimes someone may need to move into the senior’s home to make sure 24/7 care is provided or the senior may choose to go live with relatives in their home.

Care contracts can be very helpful in laying out the terms of who is expected to pay and do what. Drawing up a care contract early on can ensure both parties know what they are getting into, and make things clear to other family members that no fraud is taking place. A good care contract can also serve to transfer funds within the rules of Medicaid. Medicaid also has certain exceptions for transferring the home to caretaker children and rules for mother-in-law suites. You should consult with an elder law attorney if you are considering moving in with a relative.

Home Care Services

Some people don’t have family nearby who are able to help. A senior who would like to remain at home may consider hiring in some home services. There are two types of Home Services; Home Care and Home Health Care. Home Care services offer personal care and can be provided by any agency or individual. Home Health Care deals with medical issues, and requires licensed skilled nursing. Many times, some combination of the two is needed.

It can be hard for seniors who have saved their whole life to pay for work they’re used to doing, but it can ease burdens and prevent injury. Just about everything can be hired out these days. Lawn services, cleaning services, meal prep and taxis are usually the first thoughts, but anything consisting of assistance with personal hygiene, dressing or feeding, nutritional or support functions can be hired. Medical needs can also require services which include skilled nursing care, speech, physical or occupational therapy or home health aide services.

When hiring someone to come into your home it is important that you find a good fit. Check to make sure an agency is licensed and bonded and runs background checks on their workers. Usually these services are private pay, or offered through a church, a specialty charity, or by friends. If you cannot afford to pay for these services, you may be able to qualify through a welfare program such as PASSPORT. Consult with your elder law attorney to see if you qualify for assistance.

Adult Daycare

Adult Daycare is group supervision for elderly persons in a community facility. It provides social, recreational and sometimes health services. Seniors go to a location for the daytime and come home in the evenings. This setup works particularly well for seniors who need full time supervision and live with a working child or spouse.

There are three main types of Adult Daycare. Adult Social Daycare provides meals, recreation, organized social activities and some minor health related services. Adult Health Daycare provides some social activities, and more intensive health and therapy services. Specialized Adult Daycare Centers serve only specific care recipients such as those with diagnosed dementia.

Ohio does not license and regulate adult day care. Because of this, there may be a great difference between individual centers; do your research. Costs vary greatly and can range from $25 to over $100 per day. Adult Daycare is not usually covered by Medicare and is usually private pay. Some financial assistance may be available through other programs (e.g. Medicaid, Older Americans Act, Veterans’ Health Administration).


Sometimes staying at home is no longer an option. When this is the case, most people automatically think “Nursing Home” but depending on the level of care needed, there may be less expensive and less intrusive options for facilities

Independent Facilities

If staying at home is no longer feasible because of isolation or transportation, but the senior is still very high functioning, an Independent Living Facility may be a great option. Independent living is any housing arrangement designed exclusively for seniors, generally those aged 55 and over.

The senior has their own private space which is a part of a larger senior community. Housing varies widely, from apartment-style living to freestanding homes. While residents live independently, most communities offer amenities, activities, and services. Since independent living facilities are aimed at older adults who need little or no assistance with activities of daily living, most do not offer medical care or nursing staff however, as with regular housing, though, you can hire in-home help separately as required.

Costs can vary widely with independent living. Average monthly cost of independent living ranges from about $1,500 to $3,500. Medicare does not cover the cost of independent living.  Some long term insurance with home care benefits may contribute to independent living expenses. Most people pay privately. There is subsidized housing for low-income seniors available.

Assisted living facilities

For those seniors who are unable to perform activities of daily living or who have a cognitive impairment beyond the point of independent living, Assisted Living is the next step up after independent living, but still is a step below a nursing home.

Assisted living residences vary considerably. Most provide meals, laundry, housekeeping, transportation, and social activities. They also offer personal care, like assistance with eating, bathing, grooming and personal hygiene. Some nursing care is also provided, including medication administration and dressing changes.

Costs for Assisted Living can vary widely, even within a facility, depending on the amount of care needed. Costs generally range from $2,000 to $4,000 per month and vary depending on the size of the living area chosen, location and the amount of care needed. Basic room and board is set at one fee, and as you add on extra services costs go up. If a senior moves to an assisted living facility, she should budget expecting costs to go up as their need for care increases over time.

Medicare does not cover the cost of assisted living. Most people private pay for assisted living facilities. Ohio’s Assisted Living Waiver Program pays the costs of care in an assisted living facility for certain people with Medicaid, allowing the consumer to use his or her resources to cover “room and board” expenses. Individuals who meet certain medical and financial criteria may be eligible for Ohio’s Assisted Living Waiver Program. Unfortunately, very few assisted living facilities accept Medicaid and even if they do, there may be a limited amount of “Medicaid qualified beds”. If looking at an assisted living, consult with your elder law attorney on payment and planning options.

Nursing Homes

Nursing Homes offer full 24/7 care for seniors. The senior may have a private, semi private, or shared room. The facility provides all meals and social activities. Some have locked units for people suffering from dementia and wandering. Each nursing home has its own personality, so it is important to shop around for a good fit. You may need to get on a waiting list ahead of time. While some seniors live at a nursing home for an extended period, more than half of all nursing home stays are for three months or less.

Nursing Homes must be licensed by the state of Ohio. There is a wide range in costs between different nursing homes, but statewide, the average cost of a nursing home is more than $6,000 per month (though costs may be significantly higher). Medicare does not cover the cost of a nursing home (other than for limited rehabilitation). Long Term Care Insurance or Private Pay are often used to cover nursing home stays.

Many people staying long term in a nursing home facility cannot afford to private pay for long.  Because of this, Medicaid is the primary payer for over 63 percent of nursing facilities. In order have Medicaid pay, you need to have spent your assets down to a qualifying level, and need to be receiving care in a nursing home that accepts Medicaid and has a Medicaid bed open. It is important that if you are looking to move into a nursing home for long term care to consult with your elder law attorney. There are many legal strategies available to help qualify for Medicaid while possibly protecting some assets.

Continuing Care Retirement Communities (CCRCs)

Continuing Care Retirement Communities offer a spectrum of care from independent living to nursing home care in the same community. A senior may start out in independent living in an onsite condo, and then transfer to the nursing home facility later on depending on need. People like CCRC’s because they can age in the same place. They can be especially good for spouses who would like to stay together, but may need different levels of care.

CCRCs are almost always private pay. On top of this, most CCRCs generally require a large entrance fee which covers some of the costs associated with higher care levels later on. Once this large entrance fee is paid, residents then pay a monthly rent, which increases as care levels increase. If a senior decides to move elsewhere later on, it can be difficult to recover the entrance fee. Consult your elder law attorney on the pros and cons of CCRCs and how you might pay for care at one.

VA Contract Home & Services

The VA offers everything from full nursing home care, to home care, and financial assistance for eligible veterans. All of the options listed above may have some VA alternative for eligible veterans. Funding may be partly private, but the VA helps financially provided the senior meets their financial, medical, and service requirements.

The VA has its own private contract nursing home known as the Ohio Veterans Home in Sandusky. This is a contract home that is a 427-bed nursing home facility. It offers two levels of care: standard care for those veterans in need of any intermediate level of care, and special care for veterans with Alzheimer’s disease and other types of dementia. Unlike other nursing homes, the VA contract home is mostly populated by men. For more info, call toll free (866) 644-6838


Sometimes you are not looking for a long term solution you just need help “right now” in the moment. There are short term solutions available to seniors looking for help while they make other arrangements.

Respite Care

Respite Care is a short-term stay at a senior community, usually an assisted living or memory care community. It is not a long term solution, but can be a great living option for an elderly or disabled person who needs some day-to-day supportive services, but still desires social stimulation, engagement and activities. It can provide a good for break for caregivers, so that they know the senior is receiving good care while they are out of town, or unable to be available for a period of time. It can also be a good way to ease into a transition or try out different facilities. Many nursing homes and assisted living offer short term stays. It is almost always private pay, but Medicare may cover up to 100 days if the short term stay is for rehab.


Hospitals are not a feasible long term care solution. They are for short term emergencies generally. A hospital can be a good solution to caring for a senior with health or mental problems while placement is being arranged at a nursing home or assisted living. When a hospital inpatient is staying at the hospital and there is no medical necessity for being in there, this is considered an “alternate level of care”.

Hospice Care

Hospice is a program for persons who are terminally ill and have a life expectancy of six months or less. Hospice can treat patients in their home, a nursing home, or a hospital. Hospice offers palliative care only, which is specialized medical care for people with serious illness. It focuses on providing relief from the symptoms and stress of a serious illness.

The goal of hospice is to improve quality of life for both the patient and the family. Services extend outside of medical care. Hospice services also may include; running errands, preparing light meals, staying with a patient to give family members a break, lending emotional support, companionship, grief counseling, “make a wish” type programs, and more.

In order to qualify for hospice, a doctor has to certify that you are terminally ill and have a life expectancy of six months or less. Hospice care is then provided for two 90-day benefit periods, followed by unlimited number of 60-day benefit periods. You have the right to change providers only once during each benefit period. At the start of each period, the doctor must re-certify that you’re terminally ill so you can continue to get hospice care. If you get better or go into remission, you can “fail out” of Hospice. Once you choose hospice care, your hospice benefit should cover everything you need, other than room and board, which is still paid privately. Hospice is covered by your Medicare, Medicaid and insurance completely.

As people age, the level of care they need can change. There are many places where seniors can get the care they need. It is not just a question of home vs. nursing home. The important thing is that people have access to the help they need and know their options. When considering care and housing for yourself or a loved one, please call your elder law attorney to discuss your specific situation and what your options may be.


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